Steve Schantz, Senior Pastor
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Rom 6:1
What shall we say, then? Shall we go on sinning so that grace may increase?
2 By no means! We died to sin; how can we live in it any longer?
3 Or don't you know that all of us who were baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death?
4 We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that,
just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life. (NIV)
Steve Schantz, Senior Pastor
Small acts of kindness are remembered decades later because they affect who we are.
We are truly sorry for the grief and loss you are experiencing right now.
With love, as appreciative guests at the table,
In writing to four of my first cousins after the recent death of their mother,
I reflected on an act of hospitality that got me through the day and also shaped how I would view the world around me.
Below are excerpts from that letter to them...
Each of us is deeply indebted to those few people on earth we are able to call family.
They have helped mold us into the person we have become- kind or cruel, patient or demanding, pleasant or cantankerous.
The difference between finding our value within a community where each of us has something to contribute verses just passing
through as a consumer is planted deeply within us at an early age.
The meaning and character of our lives is shaped most noticeably by those closest to us who have gone before us.
From the treasure chest of cherished memories I hold of our family times together, one in particular had a profound impact on my life.
Somewhere between the 1st and 3rd grade of elementary school I decided that full time school was not in the cards for me.
Half day Kindergarten classes had been bearable.
Throw in a nap, a snack, a bus trip home, and a graduation ceremony with caps and diplomas and this school thing just may have possibilities!
But first grade at Lowville Academy and Central School meant the full day program. It began to grind on me, but I'd try to stick it out.
I'm not sure what kind of insecurities, internalized fears, classroom crowds, or the challenge of second grade math were working on me,
but it became obvious that it was not in my best interest to continue this five day a week full day program stuff.
It came as quite a shock that dropping out of elementary school was not an option!
At this crucial juncture in my formal education, I discovered that my cousins went home for lunch each day.
Home for them was just a few yards from the school yard. They could leave the "compound" every day at lunchtime,
duck under a fence at the back corner of the football field, and dine at home - with their Mother - every day!
Once this seven year old discovered that gig I was ducking under the fence right behind them.
Sometimes I would bring my lunch from home, other times I enjoyed a bologna or tuna fish sandwich, a few chips,
and a glass of milk your mother produced from the pantry at 111 Park Avenue.
It was much more than food - it was a taste of home and family and someone who cared about who you were - right smack in the middle of the day!
It was the joy of being a welcome guest at the table in an uncertain world.
It helped me decide that maybe I could get through this whole elementary school experience after all.
Who knows, I might even come to enjoy school- or life!
Can you ever really repay anyone for that kind of hospitality and love? I don't think so.
What I do know is that she was there for me, as she was there for each of you for so many years.
In one sense the kind of love she shared is a one way street, a fresh river flowing from a mountain spring.
It flows out in one direction and we join with it as we are carried along in a gentle current - abundant, unchanging, inexhaustible.
For those who know that love the joy is in the giving of it. It is a River of life.
May God comfort you in this time of painful loss and renew your hope for the family reunion that is yet to come.
I am so very thankful to have dined at your Mother's table, and to have enjoyed the fellowship of her company here on earth.
Let us anticipate with hope the banquet we will share together at the invitation of our Lord and King!
Steve & Carol
Pastor Steve
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